I just watched anwarhadi's video about "the one". I like the ascent how he spoke in english. I wish I can :D Okay back to the topic. Someone just asked him how do you know she (your wife) is the one? From the point of view from him that, the relationship yg bila dua orang buat macam mana pun but still okay. For example,gaduh macam mana pun at the end back together. And yeah, I admit I also felt that thing before this. During that time I think he is the one because many thing happened but we still in a relationship. But I was wrong because one of us doesn't have an effort to get a better relationship,I mean married. So when we are in a relationship,we cant said he or she is the one for us until we are married. Actually we don't know who they are,sometimes we knew someone for 5 years and suddenly they can change automatically. Well, in a relationship sometime we have a pretended skill, haa cam na nak cakap ek. Contoh la, this girl pretend she not a jealous person,pretend she is the cool one but the true is cemburu gila babeng. Hmm cam tu la cerita dia. And yeah whatever things happen must be a reason. Sometimes we planned everything but not happen so maybe Allah S.W.T have something better for us. When Allah put test at us,baru kita lebih meluangkan masa kita dekatkan diri kita dengan-NYA. So for my past relationship,Im not pointing who was actually wrong. It just like I want to relate,me and who are not in a halal ralationship yet actually not have right said "he/she is the one". Last but not least, wait for the person who pursues you, the one who will make an ordinary moment seem magical,the kind of person who brings out the best in you and makes you want to be a better person,who will be your best friend,the only person who will drop everything to be with you at any time no matter what the circumstances.
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